Amish Rumschpringe
Hope everyone had a great weekend. The winner of a signed copy of Plain Pursuit is Carol G.! Congrats Carol!
Most readers of Amish fiction are familiar with the running around period that begins when an Amish teenager turns sixteen, referred to as rumschpringe. This is a time when Amish teens are given an opportunity to experience the Englisch world - shed their plain clothing, go to the movies, watch TV with friends, and other activities normally frowned upon by the Old Order. Parents look the other way during this time, which begins at sixteen and will continue on until the teenager chooses to seek baptism into the community or chooses to leave the faith. Less than 15% choose to leave the Old Order following this running around period. Some young people will continue their running around period until they have chosen a spouse. Most of the time, baptism comes right before marriage.
While I was in Lancaster County, I saw some boys who were enjoying their rumschpringe. They were wearing their Plain clothing, however they were also sporting baseball caps and IPods, and their buggies were filled with colorful beads and a radio. A friend who grew up Amish also shared a story with me. When he was growing up, one of his Amish friends actually purchased a car during his running around period. So as not to flaunt it in his father's face, the boy would hide the car in the woods each evening when he returned home. His parents knew about the car, but looked the other way.
When I first started writing these books, my Amish friends asked me to please not dramatize this period in a teen's life. It's important to the Amish that we understand that their teenagers are no different than those in the Englisch world. They will test the boundaries just like any teenager. I also saw this first hand while dining with an Amish family while I was there. A young man in his rumschpringe came to the dinner table after he had secured buggies and horses for the night. I don't know what happened, but the boy arrived with 'attitude', and I watched his father discretely cut his eyes in the boy's direction, which seemed to say, "Leave the table." Like any normal teenager, the boy grunted and left the room. As the mother of a teenager, I could certainly relate.
Any parent, Amish or otherwise, deserves a huge pat on the back for surviving the teenager years!
Hope you all have a great week!
Most readers of Amish fiction are familiar with the running around period that begins when an Amish teenager turns sixteen, referred to as rumschpringe. This is a time when Amish teens are given an opportunity to experience the Englisch world - shed their plain clothing, go to the movies, watch TV with friends, and other activities normally frowned upon by the Old Order. Parents look the other way during this time, which begins at sixteen and will continue on until the teenager chooses to seek baptism into the community or chooses to leave the faith. Less than 15% choose to leave the Old Order following this running around period. Some young people will continue their running around period until they have chosen a spouse. Most of the time, baptism comes right before marriage.
While I was in Lancaster County, I saw some boys who were enjoying their rumschpringe. They were wearing their Plain clothing, however they were also sporting baseball caps and IPods, and their buggies were filled with colorful beads and a radio. A friend who grew up Amish also shared a story with me. When he was growing up, one of his Amish friends actually purchased a car during his running around period. So as not to flaunt it in his father's face, the boy would hide the car in the woods each evening when he returned home. His parents knew about the car, but looked the other way.
When I first started writing these books, my Amish friends asked me to please not dramatize this period in a teen's life. It's important to the Amish that we understand that their teenagers are no different than those in the Englisch world. They will test the boundaries just like any teenager. I also saw this first hand while dining with an Amish family while I was there. A young man in his rumschpringe came to the dinner table after he had secured buggies and horses for the night. I don't know what happened, but the boy arrived with 'attitude', and I watched his father discretely cut his eyes in the boy's direction, which seemed to say, "Leave the table." Like any normal teenager, the boy grunted and left the room. As the mother of a teenager, I could certainly relate.
Any parent, Amish or otherwise, deserves a huge pat on the back for surviving the teenager years!
Hope you all have a great week!






















Beth, thanks for the interesting info on the Amish teen years. It must be a very stressful time for the parents, not knowing which way the teen will decide for his/her future. It is good to see that the majority decide to remain with their parent's faith.
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Beth, Loved all of your books so far, can't wait to read more of them. Have two son ( both married now) who put me through alot when they were growing up.(talking about running around!!) Patti
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Hi.Thank you for "Amish Hearts" today. The look into the lives of Amish and their teens was cute. I appreciate and enjoy Amish Hearts because it's a great connect with the reality of Amish living. I so enjoy getting to peep into the lives of such precious souls through your sources. I feel I am able to gain a better understanding of their rock-solid beliefs and values, where in my own life, I tend to take for granted. Your site keeps things of the Amish Because of your outreaches on the Amish, my thoughts wander throughout my day of Amish living and loving. Somehow it encourages me to try to be a warmer and better person and even accomplish routine tasks with a greater sense of purpose!
Only good comes from your all your efforts
Sharing your passion,
Jan
Though last Saturday (6/06/09)was my husband's birthday, I bought a gift for myself! After purchasing him a bakery made cake, I bought one of the last of two copies of Plain Perfect at Sam's Club!
Guess it's too new to hit the library and I just couldn't wait.
Probably the Amish aren't as compulsive as this English woman.
Until your next micro-fact,
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I just finished reading the book "Amish Grace". It's about the horrible shooting at the Amish school in 2006. The first part of the book is about that, but the remainder of the book is so much more! I have come away with a much deeper understanding of the Amish & their belief system. I think I finally understand the practice of shunning, for one thing. Anyway, if you've never read this book, I highly recommend it. It also talks about the rumschpringe, that's what made me think of this. Beth I am loving reading more & more about your recent trip!
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